For me, I've noticed that I'm tending to be severe with people in service positions. For example, if I order an espresso drink and it's not made the way I ordered it I am very severe about returning the drink and requesting a new drink.

I think to myself, "Am I becoming 'that' cranky, mean old lady that I disliked when I was younger? Yikes!" And I don't think it has to do with my bipolar, at all. I just get fed up with people who don't do their jobs properly. BUT I really don't want to become a cranky old meany.