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Originally Posted by Olive303
As someone who does not want kids- how would you feel if your partner wanted kids and they gave that up to be with you?
We worry that if I give it up to be with him that I will feel regret which will turn into resentment towards him.
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For me, hindsight has shown that I'd much rather have the love of my life. I set him free decades agoand regret it every day of my life and have never found anyone like him or what we had together. I sure wouldn't want to have kids with someone who might not ever live up to your standards after having had the love of your life. Just saying though...my take.