Pander definition -> : to act as a pander; especially : to provide gratification for others' desires films that pander to the basest emotions.

Well I’ve never been accused of pandering before. That’s a new one. The thing is you are doing to me exactly what you are accusing others of doing to you. Piling it on...not reading your posts, etc. You assume that I haven’t read your other posts and base your judgement on that. I have read your posts. They are long.,.yes.

One thing I find interesting is that when you get a reply that you don’t like, you say “maybe my post wasn’t long enough ...” could you possibly be confusing quantity with quality? Making a long stream of consciousness post may help get things off your chest and that’s fine. But these kinds of posts are difficult to understand sometimes. That being said...people may understand and still not agree with you. Those are two different things.