Hey Emma, I can relate to feeling stuck and unhappy in your career and in life. That's not my situation now, but I remember it and it is an unpleasant memory. I think that...just because one accepts themselves, doesn't mean they can't make changes in their life either. I'm still getting the hang of self acceptance, myself. But from what I've learned about acceptance in general, accepting your situation does not mean you have to like it. I have also heard that acceptance helps make it easier to change if you want to. Anyway, I'm sorry that you are struggling with your self esteem and I hope that you can find a way to feel better, even if just small ways. There are a lot of ways to feel better, from self care to facing your fears and making bigger changes.