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Originally Posted by riptide53
For me, hindsight has shown that I'd much rather have the love of my life. I set him free decades agoand regret it every day of my life and have never found anyone like him or what we had together. I sure wouldn't want to have kids with someone who might not ever live up to your standards after having had the love of your life. Just saying though...my take.
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I am sorry that you went through that.
I have thought about this exactly! When you find someone like that it is hard NOT to compare every relationship after to it.
Even if we break up I won't have kids with
just anyone. It would have to match what I have now and love like this doesn't happen often. Not to mention that I think I will always love him so how could I even fully be with someone when my heart is elsewhere? I would hate to settle on a guy just so I can fulfill a inner pull to have kids. That doesn't seem like happiness to me.