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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I have found that men do not sit and percolate about an email response. They either write back right away or they don’t ever write back. That’s how I surmised your ex would not ever write back. Rarely you will get a man who ponders something and writes you later on, but in your break up case, I didn’t think it would happen. He was not classy enough to apologize and he certainly did not want to discuss his bad behavior.
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YEP, you nailed it. He is not classy enough, certainly not mature enough and cannot help himself BUT be mean.
Thing is, having lived with him, I know how little he checks his email. So it's very possible that he hasn't seen it yet. I made sure to send it to all email addresses I had for him (three). He was even having trouble accessing a couple of his accounts when we were together.
He COULD respond. Knowing him and how emotionally reactive he is, he will want to tell me off and put me in my place somehow so he can feel he has the upper hand.
But as others on here have pointed out, we don't need to
allow someone to abuse us. So in this instance, IF I read his response, then I am allowing him to further abuse me. That is also how I need to view this.
But you're right -- he may not even respond. I have NO idea.