TY!

Well, the red flags I ignored most recently are that my ex stole something for me on our first visit, got drunk and fought with me. Another red flag: he kept saying he would get a job ASAP early on to pay me back for our trips together, but he never did. He kept dragging his heels. I should have known and seen then that he had ZERO motivation. I also experienced false accusations early on and turning of the tables (blaming and accusing me when he was at fault for something). He also asked me to do illegal things for him. He has no morals.

Other relationships? Oh lordy. Too much to write on that, and yes, maybe better for a different thread, but I am open to discussing it here.

The last guy I dated stared at himself in the mirror FAR too much -- indicative of probably a narcissist.

Another one lied in the beginning and was still living with his fiance when we started dating (I didn't know this right away). He was lining up the next one while still in a relationship! He ended up being a liar, a cheater and very abusive towards me. That was a toxic relationship.

And another was sexually aggressive with me..... he ended up being abusive too.

So many.... too many really!