Something good has happened, actually.

Coming here and talking about it really saved me. If I would have continued, I would have definately felt trapped and it would have ended on bad terms.

There is hope though, thankfully.

I've been giving this a lot of thought, but is there an intervention service for cheaters? If not, there should be. You know, people you can contact if you are cheating and you know it's wrong. I think that could save a few marriages.