right! how we treat people is a product of how we process events and circumstances (our thoughts). could it be that your anxiety is actually your "good sense" trying to tell you that you have no REAL sense of security? I look around these days and if I were'nt a person with a hope of life beyond this world I think I'd have some pretty serious anxiety too! listen to what its saying to you, what about this? what if that? there are no REAL answers which are dependant upon man...you do have a freewill, your free to decide what will help you to have peace in your life. your choices come down to 1) change the world 2) change yourself - which seems more do-able? I'm just sayin...