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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think it might be already unbalanced relationship. He is not willing to compromise his life plans in order to keep you. But you are willing to compromise yours so you can keep him. It might not be a good start of a relationship already.
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I could see that but he is willing to compromise in other ways- for example where we settle down is going to be a place I chose.
I don’t think that bringing another human life in the world is something you should compromise on. I would hate to have my kids dad not want them. I decided long ago that being with him means never having children and accepting that because you shouldn’t have to convince someone of something like that. I don’t think it means he loves me any less or more. It just means that it’s up to me to decide if I can accept not having kids or not.