Thank you for that post. (((((Olive)))))

Given the way that you defend him, it really sounds like (for better or worse) you have in fact made up your mind.

Some of us here worry a lot about what you have told us, about children and about the other things you have posted and divine just brought up. I know that I do.

Still, it is your life and I hope that things work out for you as you wish them to.

If they don't, evidently there will not be any children around to complicate a divorce.

What would have to happen, now or in the future, for you to consider ending the relationship with him? What would be dealbreakers for you?