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Old Apr 09, 2018, 10:16 PM
Olive303 Olive303 is offline
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Originally Posted by carcrashonrepeat View Post
You know what? Being a mother doesn't mean you need to be married or have a husband either. You could freeze your eggs and wait. You can get a donor. You could adopt. You have plenty of options to be a mother. And I say all this because not everything, including being a mother, is planned. And I don't want you to be worried if the plan doesn't go a certain way. If you want to be a mother, you will be.
I will not bring a child into this world if they did not have a father figure who loves them and wanted them. Period.

If my boyfriend and I break up I will not have kids unless I’m financially stable, have worked on myself, and have a partner who wants them and I trust will take care of them. And I am more than prepared to not have them if those things don’t line up. It would be selfish to have kids if they don’t have a dad who wants them.
Thanks for this!
frustlandlady