I will not bring a child into this world if they did not have a father figure who loves them and wanted them. Period.

If my boyfriend and I break up I will not have kids unless I’m financially stable, have worked on myself, and have a partner who wants them and I trust will take care of them. And I am more than prepared to not have them if those things don’t line up. It would be selfish to have kids if they don’t have a dad who wants them.