What was it Tolstoy said, that happy families are all alike, but unhappy families are each unhappy in their own particular ways. Something like that?

Truth is, I've been lucky that both therapists have worked very well for me. The first one, I wouldn't have left my abusive marriage without their help! Self protection was made possible there. The second one is giving me so much in terms of feeling seen, understood, and reflected in their eyes.. self knowledge is valuable too.

I'm sorry that you've had such a bad experience in therapy. It SUCKS to have the dependency activated and then get forced into termination. It was awful for me and it must have been even worse for you. Hugs!