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Old Apr 10, 2018, 09:52 AM
*Laurie* *Laurie* is offline
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Originally Posted by frustlandlady View Post
I think she can not rely on exceptions like this. It is a great risk. If a man says he doesn't want kids, he will propably not accept them after.
I'm not sure what you mean by "a great risk"?

People do change their feelings. I'm not sure my situation was an exception; I have seen so many men and women who believe they don't want kids then, for whatever reason, they end up having a child and never look back. They love being a parent, after all.

By the same token I've seen a lot of people, especially men, who think they want a baby and end up totally unprepared for the responsibility.

Sometimes the question of whether to have a child or not just takes time and life experience.