[QUOTE=RubyRae;6074382]Example,if someone treats me like **** and I don't stand up to them and overlook it then it's most likely going to continue.But if there were boundaries and consequences whenever the boundaries are crossed then they would learn quickly treating me that way is not ok and will not fly with me./QUOTE]

Agreed, setting boundaries and enforcing consequences is the right thing to do. The consequences need to be harsh enough to terminate the problematic behavior, or else the abuser may continue just to provoke adverse reactions.