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Old Apr 11, 2018, 12:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Artchic528 View Post
She came to take me to the pharmacy to pick up a refill on meds I ordered, and decided to get the bike and rack when she dropped me back off at the house.

I had asked my dad if he could take me, but he was busy with work all evening and couldn't do it, so I told him I'd ask my mom if she could do it instead.

It's not like she came into the house proper at all. She just went into the garage to get her things.
Yeah, but she doesn't need to come into the house to pick you up. If you know she's not supposed to be in the house, you really shouldn't let her in. And she should have the common sense to do that when your dad is there and not put you in the middle.

I mean, they aren't really her things anymore if they had agreed she would get everything by Nov 1.

So you can stop this but not allowing them to put you in the middle anymore. If she wants to come in and take things, tell her to discuss it with your dad, not to sneak in when he's not there, which is what she did. And tell him he needs to talk to her about it, not you.

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