All of you have mentioned points I've had on my mind. Why would his own mom say things of that nature?? Why would she wait till he leaves?? Why would she tell me now??

He and I have lived together for almost 1 year and have had some pretty heated arguments...but nothing physical. He can be distant sometimes and other times be extremely caring. I just really don't understand in her mind what good it would be to tell me. It's making things wayyy more confusing..and her waiting till he left makes me question everything even more. Would that have set him off?? Does she think she's warning me?? I would asked her more questions at the time but I honestly was quite shocked at what she was telling me and caught off guard. I feel bad because when we left his mom's he did ask what was wrong with me...and I told him "nothing." I really didn't know how to say to him "well your mom just told me you have been wasting their money and your a woman beater" 😰 It baffles me because they both claim to have an "awesome" relationship with each other and he has told me before that if it wasn't for her being there for him he wouldn't know where he'd be...

I care about him deeply and now feel that a bad seed has been planted in my mind. I have anxiety issues and tend to over think things any way.