My husband too thinks love should conquer all.but it won't or wed all be cured. I remember when I told my mom and she said for petes sake sterilize whatever you use. Oh and I love you.....I was like WHA??????

You are not sewlfish nor are any of us. Because of bad circumstances in our lives we HAVE to put ourselves first and keep calm right. If that's selfish then count me in......

Don't think that way.....were here to help you. Try to smile today as you deserve it

Colleen