Krazibean, you're just making yourself krazi :-) with all the jockying for who calls whom and when's the appointment. Save that for your sessions. If she hasn't called you by when you expect, call her and ask how she is and if your usual schedule is still on. You're working too hard getting more from therapy outside the sessions than in. That can't work. The point is to get into a session and work on your issues with another person. If you don't talk to your T she can't know what you're thinking and feeling. Being angry at her when she isn't part of the equation, isn't in the discussion with you, just burns holes in yourself. Call her, set up an appointment, go, and lambast her there for not calling when she said she would/when you expected if you think it will help. Tell her to her face you're tired of her jerking you around and she's fired.