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Originally Posted by divine1966
You are very young. 23? You most certainly have many years ahead of you to have kids and find maybe more suitable partner. I understand you think he us the love of your life. We all thought that at 23. Yet you have no idea what’s down the road and who is a better match. We all thought we know it all at your age. You can’t possibly have enough life experience to know. So don’t limit yourself and don’t make sacrifices that aren’t needed
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I’m very aware that I don’t know it all. That’s why I turn to this forum because I am LOST. I won’t have kids for at least another 7 years. I am in a 4 year relationship and we are at a crossroads where we are asking if we’re all in or not and kids is an important part of that. Many people get married in their 20s and have lost lasting and fulfilling marriages. I’m reluctant to let my 4 year relationship go over kids- something I’m not even fully sure will happen for me.