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Originally Posted by Olive303
I’m very aware that I don’t know it all. That’s why I turn to this forum because I am LOST. I won’t have kids for at least another 7 years. I am in a 4 year relationship and we are at a crossroads where we are asking if we’re all in or not and kids is an important part of that. Many people get married in their 20s and have lost lasting and fulfilling marriages. I’m reluctant to let my 4 year relationship go over kids- something I’m not even fully sure will happen for me.
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you're not fully sure will happen but if you choose to stay with someone that has decided not to have them you make it a sure thing that it won't. Keeping that option is an important thing to consider right now.
Ultimately it's your decision but the best advice I can give is to be sure of the consequences of your choice and be sure you're ready to accept it fully before even thinking about making that very life changing decision.
What I mean is, decide what's more important and whether this person in particular is worth giving something like that up for. that's the million dollar question. no one here can say what is right and what is acceptable to you which is why I say the best advice is to know for sure if it's what you want, either way.