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Originally Posted by Olive303
I’m very aware that I don’t know it all. That’s why I turn to this forum because I am LOST. I won’t have kids for at least another 7 years. I am in a 4 year relationship and we are at a crossroads where we are asking if we’re all in or not and kids is an important part of that. Many people get married in their 20s and have lost lasting and fulfilling marriages. I’m reluctant to let my 4 year relationship go over kids- something I’m not even fully sure will happen for me.
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I understand you are reluctant. On one hand 4 years isn’t that long (it seems long to you because of your age) but on the other hand 4 years is long enough to know if you two are right match. If you are still questioning 4 years later than maybe it’s not ideal situation. It’s great that you are searching for answers.