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Old Feb 04, 2008, 01:23 PM
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is he still acting that way today?

my boyfriend and i have both said things we didnt mean in a fight, just like every couple does, im sure. its afterwards that matters, i think. if he can't handle your depression and cant be there to support you, then maybe you guys arent right for each other. it takes a lot of patience and i have lost several boyfriends because of my craziness. finally, i found someone who stands by me no matter how psycho i get lol.

its really hard to do, but ive been told by several people that, if someone makes you mad, you should look at whats wrong with you, not them. so if he has a problem with your issues then the problem isn't really with you, as others have said. if youre trying, thats the best you can do. and if thats not good enough for him, then maybe you guys should talk about that.