Well... this is just my personal opinion okay? But I don't believe there is really anything you can do here other than to continue to be sensitive to what your gf is & isn't comfortable with. Your gf is the one who needs to address these issues... presumably by finding a therapist she feels comfortable with & working with that person over a period of time to address her issues.

You cannot find your gf a therapist. The relationship between a therapy client & a therapist is a very personal thing. And not every therapist works well with every client. Sometimes a person has to "try out" several therapists before finding one who actually "fits". So really... your gf is the one who is going to have to have to figure out what therapists are available to her geographically & then decide on which one, or ones, to try. Some therapists specialize in treating indidviduals with a particular type of disorder. However my experience at least has been that most therapists are more "generalists" & will see clients with a variety of different concerns. At least from my perspective, your gf's comfort level with the therapist she sees will be what is important.

Here are links to some articles, from PsychCentral's archives, on the subject of finding a therapist. The first article presents information regarding PC's Find a Therapist service:

https://psychcentral.com/find-help/

https://psychcentral.com/find-therapist/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/10-way...ood-therapist/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...pist-you-love/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-t...fford-therapy/

My best wishes to you both...