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salukigirl said:
yes i know that (having done it myself) but she even said meaningless sex several times.

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IMO - I think some times people do not know what they really want / need - for while she may have been saying "meaningless sex" - I still feel deep down inside that she was truly using it as a substitute for the lack of her husbands affection.

She..... like many other people might look toward sex to take care of love (or the lack of it).