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Orignally Flowerb said:
I'm having trouble figuring out how to let anyone close to me and take care of me in anyway. It is uncomfortable and it is so much easier to take care of everyone else.
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What I find interesting about this thread is that the consensus suggests that there IS a difference between caring for others and letting others take care for us. Or even just accepting that others may WANT to care for us. Personally, I guess I've only learned less than 50% of the overall lesson-- Guess I'm not doing so well in Relationship 101 :-) Hence the need for remediation- I don't want to be the child left behind. :-)
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