How old is your son?

It sounds like he needs the boot.

If he's 21 or older, he'll figure it out....and you should not feel bad about it.

Kids are resilient, far more than parents and kids think.

It sounds unintentional, but you are allowing him to dictate your feelings and emotions.

I'm way over-simplifying it, I'm sorry.

On the cannabis, I say toke up, and often, if it helps keep you sane during this.