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My bulimic acts. Way to shameful and he likes to take things like that and project them on the wall for it to be as clear as day for it to be in my face. OMG I can not even turn and face him. I hide my face in my hands. Just think of the most embarrassing moment in your life and 10 fold that. That is how that feels.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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