Unfortunately, I understand completely.

My mother thinks that my BP and BPD couldn't possibly apply to me. I think this stems from my (abusive) father trying to convince her that she was bipolar. She is also the primary caretaker for my younger brother who suffers from depression and anxiety, and it is not an easy job to bare alone.

My father, despite suffering from depression, ignored every time I asked for help growing up because I knew the ways I felt weren't normal.

My brother tells me he resents me because I am relatively high functioning.

Overall there is a lot of resentment and misunderstanding in my family. I try to not bring it up, it is a touchy subject for all involved.