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Originally Posted by carcrashonrepeat
I'm sorry you are becoming sick over this. I agree with divine, why make these decisions now? You don't know what you want just yet, it seems, and it appears just having to make the choice right now physically affects you. It really shouldn't.
God, 23. I was married and divorced at that age lol. I'm 32 now and feel confident about not having kids. At 23, I wasn't so sure but that's a good thing because I had no clue what I was doing, which can be fun and scary. It's just a life lived, I suppose. I never thought I'd be married. There are no wrong or right decisions.
Can you take a break from having to worry about this? Leave it in the future where it belongs.
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I think that shows how I’m not ready to decide but my boyfriend wants a decision. He doesn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t see a future with him or to be together if we will just break up. He predicts my wanting children won’t go away and his not wanting children won’t go away so what’s the point? He does have a point. I may be young (I’m actually 24), and I may not know what I want in a lot of ways but I know I want kids. What I don’t know is how content I’d be without them- how can I at this age? What I don’t know is which I would rather have. What I don’t know is if the timing will ever feel right for me.
I’d love to take a break but it just seems like procrastination. Is it wise to continue a relationship I’m not sure may even have a future? Like I said my boyfriend thinks we should break up since I’m not sure if I can handle being childless or not so the decision does need to me made- and fast.