My personality issues might be everything but simple. It's not the time or place to explain them.
I am angry at my sister right now, it will go away soon, I will forget it... But it makes me angry and sad how she doesn't listen to me, appreciates what I do, or tries to understand my point of view... And how aggressive she can be. Talking over me.
I always lost the fights with her, from my point of view, like what I think doesn't get credit and it is her opinion that prevails.
When I was a child I used aggression to express this type of anger, now it becomes so loud I no longer listen...but I have to let it out.
She won so I must be the guilty one.