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Old Apr 16, 2018, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
I do not have any real life friends.

I used to have online friends, one from here that lasted 5 yrs but just vanished one day.

I do talk to people more online bec it’s easier for me, but it’s also very easy for people to walk away when their online. Especially here. Several people I used to talk to a lot that just disappeared. No idea what happened to them. So I figure they moved on, died or lost internet connection, whatever it is they didn’t value the friendship as much as I did & the connection was not important to them obviously.

So I put myself out there less & less. I’m not an idiot & I don’t enjoy being “ghosted.” And I’m getting very used to being alone.
I hear you. It sucks to get ghosted. Some people don’t take online relationships seriously. I’m sorry that happened to you. One of the problems with online friends is that there is no other way to communicate if things change. I’ve probably ghosted friends that I had from being an avid gamer. If I get in a bad place emotionally or just get tired of that game ...well then I’m gone. I to try contact friends and tell them I’m taking a break or moving on, But I don’t always succeed. I’ve probably hurt people by doing this and I feel bad about that.
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