I agree....one should NEVER go into marriage assuming the other person will change or change their mind. My H did that to me & honestly I had issues with him before the marriage & it grew into total lack of respecting him & even hating him after we got married & the fighting grew worse out of the lack of respect I grew to have even more as time passed.

I would strongly advise not going there even though I was on the other side of the fence in not wanting kids.

Bill has a very good point....let him be the one who decides what he wants most in his life since he is the one suggesting a break up...let him have it & see where that goes. Have confidence in your OWN HEART & desire to have kids & don't be pressured to do what ithers want like has been your normal in life. Normals always FEEL the most comfortable decision to make but not necessarily what is really right for you.

Just because there is no other guy in the wings waiting for you that wants kids doesn't mean there won't be someone even more compatible who likes travel & wants a family.