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Old Apr 16, 2018, 05:22 PM
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I know it I had the chance to go on a paid for trip with my 6 sisters my spouse would be carrying my bag to the car and wishing me well.

Feelings aren't necessarily wrong or right; they are just feelings. Is there something else going on? Is a week too long? Will you not function well without her? Maybe the thought of keeping the household running is daunting. When my mom got sick and I had to keep all the balls in the air it was pretty stressful at times because I knew her condition would not improve.

Who knows it's sometimes healthy to spend a little time a part. It can be positive for a relationship. Since she has made the decision to go try and find the positives in this for you and your relationship.
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Thanks for this!
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