OR....you MAY find out what REAL LOVE feels like with someone who is really totally compatible with you. You are risk adverse because you have always done what everyone else tells you to do or manipulates you to do. Time to find some self-confidence & go for WHAT YOU WANT in life. There is a risk in every choice we make.

When I left my H after 33 years of marriage & NEVER having lived on my own at the age of 54....it was a risk that could have not turned out good, but it did & I am so happy NOW that I made that risky choice that also had an effect on the rest if my life. We never KNOW when we make choices how they will turn out byt if we use our wise mind is making the choice we think will be the best....that is a good foundation to base the choice on.