So I go to a support group. The facilitator is a volunteer. I've known him since he was just a group member before he became a facilitator. Today in group he mentioned that he liked to get outdoors this time of year, hike and stuff.

Okay, I've kinda had a little crush on him for awhile. Nothing big, just happened to notice him in group, think he's kinda cute, in a geeky way, then let it go.

Tonight after group I asked him where he likes to hike, and he mentioned a few trails, one that I like to bike on. I asked him if he ever bikes it. And then asked him if he wanted to join me when I go bike it as I'm always looking for company. He said sure and said to text him, and gave me his number.

Not sure I did this correctly. I mean, I'm fine with just hanging out and getting to know him. I'm not expecting anything. But did I just ask him out like on a date?

I'm not sure how to develop relationships. My ex-fiancee and I met online so it was a totally different kind of courtship. All my ex-boyfriends asked me out and it was much more obvious and, well, sex happened pretty early on so it was pretty obvious.

Someone explain to me how this works now. I'm really out of the loop when it comes to IRL relationships.

Thanks,
Seesaw