(((Marie))) I'm glad you found PC!

Please do listen to what those caring ppl have suggested regarding your abusive son. Maybe the sooner you can stop/correct him, the easier it will be for him to improve his lifestyle and you can repair the family??? It won't get better on it's own, and I think you know this.

You have so much on your plate, and I'm glad you have others helping now. Come back and ramble again!