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Originally Posted by deepurplegirl
I never think before I speak and make people angry. I always put my 2 cents in where it doesn't belong. I'm 37 and I live with my mom and stepdad. My stepdad and I have been fighting a lot lately. I'll say something that sets him off. He get in my face pointing his finger and it usually turns physical when he does that. As I feel like an animal being cornered. My mom tells me to think before I speak. Like its that easy. If it was I would have controlled myself better. I just hate myself! I just wish I could change, I'm tired of pushing people away and being hated. I feel like I am a horrible person. 
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Your mother giving you advice your step-father is the one who actually needs?
Sounds like scapegoating to me
Nothing wrong with giving two cents, and don't mind people who go away, because they probably can't give you the care you need anyway