You absolutely can have a career that you love. Or at least like a lot. Ton of people have careers that they really love. We spend so much time at work that it’s very important to like it, otherwise it’s quite depressing life. Why aren’t you searching for something you love? Going back to school perhaps? I think this should be a priority right now, finding career that is fulfilling and pays well. You think you can give up having kids but also don’t want job that you love. Would your life just evolve around your man?

Being an immigrant doesn’t mean you can’t have a dream job and enjoy an awesome life. I am very confused on this (and I am an immigrant myself).