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Originally Posted by Buffy01
I'm sorry this has happened to you. I had a similar experience myself. I could be wrong but have you ever thought about whether or not she is just using you? It might be a good idea to just ignored her and change your number. If she was a true friend she wouldn't be playing with your emotions. Ask yourself this question what does your friendship mean to you and why it is important? Then ask yourself how do you feel about this situation? For me I had to end my friendship for the sake my mental health because there was nothing more that I could do to save my friendship.
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Oh yes I agree. I do think she could be trying to use me. From what I've heard and also just personal past experiences, an end of a friendship does not always mean total loss of communication, unless it was a total blowout and even then communication can be restored sometimes after some time has passed. In some cases, the person who ended the friendship will just use you as a back up friend or a sounding board so the person is not totally alone should something go wrong with a relationship or other friendships. I believe that is what she may be doing. If she truly did care, she would put in more effort. Even another casual friend who I mentioned in previous threads and that I reconnected with makes more of an effort than this former friend does. I am not close to her, just casual friends, but she puts in more effort than she used to.