We only have one life to live. I don’t think it’s a good idea to spend it “enduring” miserable job, unpleasant place to live, boredom, stressed and struggling not knowing if your man is the right choice, not having friends around, give up having kids etc What for? I’d never settle for a life like this. I just can’t relate. No man is worth it. Life is too short to not enjoy it and be happy