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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
I can understand what you mean. I was just always told that it is inappropriate to be at other people's houses when they have company of their own. And I worry that even though my friend is okay with it, other people may not be. But I get what you mean. I just like to make sure other people are secretly wondering why I am there and wishing I would leave. But yeah it is always worth a try.
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Hi rdgrad15--I have a couple thoughts...
1. while you were taught it was inappropriate to be at another's house when they have company--others may have been taught a totally different rule.
2. Just be you. If others are not okay with it--that is their dilemma to solve.
3. You can't see other folks thoughts so what good is it to wonder what they are thinking? Don't make up 'stories' about what you think they are thinking cause, again, you don't know.
Also, it is perfectly okay to back out if you find your friend invited others over. Let her know, you feel uncomfortable, in that situation. Then she knows, if she continues to do it--she is disregarding your feelings. And feel free to cancel or leave...hope that helps.
