When you feel uncomfortable in therapy--that's when you stay. Otherwise, you just run away and the problems continue; I'm saying this from experience.
Relationships are messy; they just are... In therapy I learned that it was not my fear of intimacy or getting hurt that was my problem. My problem was that I didn't trust myself to be able to handle it. I do trust me now--and I have friends, some evergreen some seasonal. And I am grateful for all of them.
Hope you find your way. I'm wishing you strength and light...
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