For me, I don't think it is possible under normal circumstances for me to intrude upon a therapist. But I greatly am concerned about those guys intruding upon me. I don't want unsolicited emails or phone calls or texts. I don't want them trying to insist upon anything or pressing me (usually they learn quickly that pressing me is not going to work - I have had both of the recent women say that did not work - like no s hit). I don't want them a familiarity with me they do not have. I want them to stay back and keep away.