Hey (((((((((( Echoes )))))))))))

This sounds pretty distressing... from the impression I get, I think she might have misunderstood something along the way, or maybe you misunderstood it. I'm not sure how she could share personal info like that and then say it's not a friendship. Could you contact her again and say you're confused and you're not sure where it's gone wrong? I think if things can be clarified between you, your friendship/ relationship might be able to begin again, unless she's the kind of person who can't forgive...