Thanks divine, twenty four is still very young yet and it's really not unusual to not know what one really wants yet. And when it comes to working, it's also not unusual to find out that you don't like your job either. It's really not being fair to self to look at a job or career as something you can't enjoy doing either. People can and do find careers they really enjoy and it's really not a bad thing to continue learning and thinking about a career change until you find something you actually enjoy doing. Also, every job a person does is a learning experience and it's actually amazing what you can learn that can be helpful towards doing something else you want to end up doing. The same is true for relationships, you may not end up with the person you engaged in a relationship with for a year or a few years, especially when one is so young, however you can apply things you have learned to a relationship that may be a better match, in this case a man who does want a family someday.

One thing I have noticed about individuals in their early twenties is they seem to think they should "know" what they want and stress if they are not really sure. Well, it's SO NORMAL to not be sure, it really is and my suggestion is to give yourself some time to explore before making a big life decision.