If I am understanding correctly than my answer would be both.

When I go in for my session there are details or certain topics that I either censor or just cannot get out because I can't imagine saying it to somebody. It feels like doing so would be inappropriate. As if I would be scolded or run out and never allowed back because I crossed some line, even though realistically I know they would probably see it as progress.

On their end, there have been some times when I've felt like by some questioning or statements from my therapist. I get all restless and squirmy because it goes past my comfort level, or they keep at it until I answer. Worse than my therapist with that is my psychiatrist. During our talks, my psychiatrist acts like there are no such thing as boundaries and will ask me way too personal of questions in totally blunt language. It makes me reel back until I can manage to stammer out that I'm not comfortable answering it.