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Originally Posted by junkDNA
The voices come n go right now. Quiet morning for me today. I feel like there's no good way to tell t how much in pain I am in. I also fear it's hurting him. He says things like he's frustrated. He said it's hard to watch. Idk. Can I tell t the truth without hurting him. I shouldn't have to worry about that but we have a unique relationship it seems. Whether that's good or bad I don't know but It is what it is.
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It sounds like there is some boundary loss between you and T. Can you reinforce your sense of separateness through remembering your favorite music and movies? Clothes you like, the peaceful walks in nature?
I think it's a good idea to show him this post. You'll come out of this. You're separate from T. His frustration is his own, from own stuff. And you're not that powerful (as it seems) to make him feel things.