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Originally Posted by YoucancallmeFlower
On impulse I gave her a hundred bucks a couple of weeks ago to buy medication because she had been ill and could not afford it. I didn't expect the money back, of course, but she seemed so grateful. She
offered to help me clean since I am still recovering from a recent heart
attack. But that didn't happen.
She saw some jewelry I was making, told me she wanted it and now expects me to come to her place on her birthday with a $45 piece that took me three days to make!
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That was so nice of you to give her money but now she has proven her "true colors" by not trying to make any "nice" gesture of some sort (how often has she thanked you?) She shouldn't have offered to clean if she wasn't going to follow through--unless she eventually does this--she has done you a favor by making it obvious that she is lacking in character. Stay away from her as much as you can. Talk to us here instead.
Now that you realize who she is--don't give her anything else--and if you are broke--you do not need jewelry--that is just crazy to "want" if you can't pay the bills....
If you fall for another sob story--your depression will get oh so bad. I guarantee it but you don't have to go there.
